Maybe it’s time for a bit of a change!

Hey, guys. It’s Silas. I’ve been following the blog and lately it’s been a bit of a “hair orgy.” I for sure don’t mind because I love body hair, pubes, hairy pits, legs and ass cracks – but I know some of you like your boys shaved and smooth. So here are some guys that fit the bill. I’m hoping Denny can find one or two who will work with his “no hair, don’t care” rule 🙂

I want to tell you about something that happened last week. On Wednesday I got a text from Isaiah’s dad, Caleb, asking for a conference. I texted him and told him I had a two-hour “planning period” on Thursday and could meet with him then. I pulled all of Isaiah’s records and was ready for our meeting on Thursday… but when Caleb arrived he said it wasn’t Isaiah he wanted to talk about. He said “You guys have done an amazing job and Isaiah loves his school and friends. He’s doing well and is stuttering a bit less. It really is a miracle.”
So I said “What did you want to talk about?” He hesitated, then said “I need to talk with you about me.” I said “What’s up?” Then the story just poured out. He’s from Chicago and when he was in high school he went to a party where he got drunk and buzzed on weed and had sex with a girl. He said he didn’t really even know her, it just happened. Then he found out she was pregnant. She wanted to have an abortion but Caleb wanted the baby. She finally agreed to have the baby if he’d pay her ten thousand dollars. He didn’t have the money so he asked his parents and they agreed to loan him the money. She had a baby boy (Isaiah)… took the money, signed away her parental rights and moved away (Caleb doesn’t know where). His parents paid the medical bills and helped him with the baby. He said things were going o.k, although there were frequent disagreements about raising his son (he said his parents are “radical Christian wing-nuts”). When Isaiah was six, his parents wanted to adopt him and demanded that Caleb give up his parental rights. He told them there was no way he’d give up his son. He said things got ugly and they ended up suing him for custody plus the medical expenses and the amount remaining on the loan. He didn’t have money for an attorney so he found a pro bono child custody lawyer to handle it. Long story short, the judge who heard the case ruled that Caleb would retain custody of Isaiah but he was ordered to pay his parents the money. He and Isaiah wanted a change, so they “just made a snap decision and moved to Table Rock lake.” He said he has a good job and finished paying off his parents last year. They’re no longer in contact. Isaiah is 9 years old now.
He said “I’m a single dad and Isaiah and I are doing fine. But I’m gay. I’ve always known I was gay and the older I get the more lonely I feel. I’m 28 and don’t have a sex life or any gay friends. Then, I went to the Halloween party at hawks nest and saw you guys and how happy you are and how much you love your kids and it’s all I can think about. I don’t really know what I want but I wonder if I could maybe be your friend. Not for sex or anything but just your friend.” I told him I’d be honored to have him as a friend and I’d talk with the rest of the guys about him.
I texted the guys and told them about Caleb and Isaiah. They all said we should do whatever we can to help them. David said he and Ben were planning a party Saturday evening and thought we should invite them. So we did. We had a cookout and everyone was there. Then Denise and Scott took the kids to Koala Cove for a sleep-over. Isaiah was so excited about spending the night with the kids he was just beaming. Of course you know the rest. After the kids were gone we broke out the margaritas and smoke and headed to the hot tub. Caleb took to it like a “duck to water.” He got naked in near-record time and obviously had the time of his life. He’s about 5′-11″, 165# and a very cute guy. We’re excited about having him in our group. Alex even says he knows a dude he wants to introduce him to. We’ll see how that goes 🙂
Be well and happy. Love ya. Silas (and Dante)

Dude. WHY?

Apparently there were problems with the blog last Friday. None of us encountered them because we were otherwise involved – and we haven’t heard anything about it from our site administrator. It’s another reminder that anything can happen with on-line sites so please save our e-mail, just in case. It’s:
unrulydude@juno.com
Speaking of last Friday… Earlier in the week Denise called and asked if we’d like a “boys night” on Friday. She said she and Scott had reserved the Koala cove clubhouse and would love to have the kids (and dogs) over for a cookout, games and sleep over. I knew the kids would love that, so I texted the guys and and asked if they were interested in a “boys night.” The responses were “yes,” “hell yes,” and “fuck yes,” so it was decided.
After school, we packed up the kids, dogs, phones, i-pads, air mattresses, sleeping bags and tons of other important stuff and took them to Koala cove. By nine o’clock, there were 12 of us gathered at our house eating a light dinner, drinking margaritas and smoking some “killer pot” compliments of Jim. It was a warm evening so getting naked and hopping into the hot tub seemed like the perfect thing to do. And that’s exactly what we did. We have a big hot tub but it’s pretty crowded with 12 naked dudes in it. No one seemed to mind. Dante and Silas are planning an even bigger hot tub at their “rainbow aerie,” but honestly, there are advantages to being crammed together 🙂
Here’s something you might like to know. Not one of the 12 guys in our group has a single body hair trimmed or shaved. Yup. Hairy arms, legs, feet, pits, pubes and ass cracks on all. We figure if that’s the way God created us that’s the way it’s supposed to be!